How To Get People To Happily Build Your List

May 24, 2010

Guest post by Dave Navarro

Social media sites like Twitter and Facebook are crucial to spreading your message, growing your network and building your reputation online – but for a lot of people, turning that into cashflow is a challenge. While promoting your expertise and personality is part of the “acceptable” social media ethic, asking for the sale can sometimes feel icky and ill-received.

Let’s talk about how to fix that. :-)

Self Promotion and Promotion Are Two Different Worlds

On social media sites, no one is going to knock you for bringing the focus on yourself (provided that’s not all you do). Your fans and followers want to hear about your latest projects, your business growth, who you’re meeting with. There’s an incredible dynamic of sharing going on where people actually want to spread the word about your hard-earned successes, your thought-provoking blog posts and your all-too-human moments. Self-promotion is part of the conversation.

But when the stream becomes littered with product promotion, that dynamic can turn on you. While some people will get excited about your offerings, other people won’t – and if the conversations start getting too focused on links to sales pages, people can begin to tune you out.

Does that mean you can’t sell via social media? Of course not – social media is absolutely essential for bringing in an audience, deepening the trust factor they have in you and warming them up for your offer.

But the offer itself? If you make it solely on social media sites you may be disappointed with the conversion. That’s because while the courtship may take place on Twitter or Facebook, the proposal works best when you have them somewhere else: on your email list.

Building A List Is Where Promotion Really Works

One of the reasons that social media sites (including blogs) are less effective at driving sales is because people look at them in a non-linear way. Depending on what time of day you pop on Twitter of Facebook, you can miss 95% of what specific people are saying as their messages get buried in the stream.

The same goes for blogs – when things get busy, people can’t keep up with the dozens of blogs that they follow. And so your short-term sale doesn’t get seen until it’s been long over.

Email is a different story. It’s linear. When people fire up their inbox, they read the subject line of every message to decide whether to open (or delete) them. If you have a list you can mail to, you can let them know about your offers as soon as they’re available – and they’re much more likely to see them.

Plus, people are used to seeing offers in email. Seeing a link to click that goes to a sales page isn’t going to seem jarring to them (and if they don’t want to deal with the stress of their inbox, that click may be a welcome diversion).

That click is where sales come from – and that’s why you want to focus on building your list just as much as you focus on warming up your audience on Twitter and Facebook.

How To Build Your List Without Being Lame

What I tend to see people do when they want to build a list is they either put something up like “please join my newsletter” or they make a simple “bribe” like a free report to get people to sign up. That tactic may have worked 5 years ago, but it’s not that effective now.

It gets even worse when the free thing being offered is tired, recycled content (or something shallow and superficial because the author didn’t want to put the “good stuff” in there). They just want to give away the small stuff.

The problem with giving the small stuff away for free is that the bar has been raised, and everybody can tell when it’s small stuff. So it’s a lot harder to get people to get (and stay) on your list than it used to be. You need to step up your game and offer something “above and beyond” is you want to wow ad woo people onto your list.

Create A Resource Worth Being Wowed About

When I work with one-on-one clients, I always tell them to treat their free offering like a product – create something truly worth paying for. This serves two purposes:

First, it blows their minds because you’re giving them something much more than they’re used to getting. That’s going to establish an amazing level of credibility with them right off the bat.

Second, it gives you a competitive advantage. If you have the guts to deliver product-quality stuff for free, you’re going to be ahead of all the people who don’t. They aren’t going to do what it takes to catch up, and you get the reputation for being a premium provider (who can charge premium rates).

This is exactly the model I used with The Launch Coach Library – it’s an enormous online business resource with 4 free workbooks (almost 100 pages in total). And each workbook is contains product quality content, too.

Still, giving all that away was a difficult thing to come to grips with. When you give something away that you truly could charge for, it feels painful because you’re thinking of the effort you put in and the money you “could” be making if only you charged for it.

The truth is, though, the opposite actually occurs – that time you put into creating that free stuff now will come back to you in the form of loyal fans ready to buy from you, again and again.

How To Make Your Audience Tell Other People About Your List

The key to getting people to talk about you is getting them results. Whatever it is that you offer as your free list-building content, make it something that gives them an immediate result, a take-away that makes them better off than they were before they got on your list.

And to take it a step further, share the results with your audience. Blog about their success with your free offer and use that as social proof that what you offer works. Encourage your audience to tweet or write about that success story and spread the word. Put the spotlight on them, and they’ll be more than happy to tell others that you helped them.

Do this over and over again, and you reputation (and list) will increase. Each time you tweet about a new success story, the older ones will join in with their retweets as well. It builds and builds, and your list does, too.

If you really give your audience something worth sharing, you won’t have to beg them to spread the word, either – they’ll want to do it. Solve their problems and help them move forward and they’ll become more than customers – they’ll be come referral engines that bring you more buyers every month.

Take One Minute Now To Make Your List More Attractive To People

I don’t want you to leave this post without taking one step towards making your list grow at a faster rate. Think of one highly valuable product-quality solution you can create in the next week or two, and tell us what it’s going to be so you can create some accountability for making it happen.

If you’re not sure what to do, take a look at my free 21-page workbook, How To Start Making Real Money From Your Own Products In 3 Days. It will step you through my “product in a weekend” process so you can get that list-building resource on your site without a crazy amount of work.

And if it helps you, feel free to tweet about it. (Yeah, I just had to say that).

Dave Navarro is a product launch manager who specializes in teaching smart business owners how to build responsive email lists and create their own high-demand information product platform. You can find out if he’s for real by digging through free workbooks like “7 Steps To Networking With A-Listers Fast” and “7 Ways To Start Playing A Much Bigger Game” in the Launch Coach Library.


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How To Create Social Proof In 3 Simple Steps

May 17, 2010

Guest post by Andy Fogarty

3 Ways To Create Social Proof From Social Poop

Ahh… Social proof. It’s all the rage these days.

Actually, it’s always been the rage. We just didn’t use that term as much as we do now. Whether you’re sick of hearing those words or not, they’re kind of a big deal.

I’m sure I probably don’t have to tell you too much about the importance of social media. After all, you’re here at Laura’s blog so you’ve probably already come to the realization that social proof is one of the most powerful marketing tools you can ever have for your brand or business.

And you probably already know that the best way gain this coveted social proof is by either…

  • Planning a trip around the world to knock on everyone’s front doors, meet them face to face, and hopefully be able to instantly strike up a conversation that proves valuable, interesting, and relevant to them.
  • Plan out a social media campaign and put that puppy into action.

I think I’ll go with the second one (Although traveling the globe does sound nice).

Ooo… I Smell Poop

I bet you want to know what social poop is don’t you?

Have you ever been cruising around your Tweetisphere and stumbled across a picture of some logo and all the tweets are promos and deals. They’re following 10,000 people and only have like 500 people following them back, and of those 500 followers maybe 50 of them have actually chosen to follow the talking logo without using an auto follow system.

If you click on the link in their Twitter profile, it takes you to a blog that’s spitting out the same information. Or better yet, it’s a blog that’s loaded with ads for just about anything you can imagine. Or maybe it’s actually a decent looking blog but every post is about you buying a product from them.

What do you do when you get to one of those? If you’re like me, you say “What is this sh… poop?” and click the back button.

Is this you? Maybe not that extreme, but are you doing some of this and calling it your social media campaign?

I hate to break to ya, but that’s not creating any social proof. It’s creating a big ol’ pile of social poop.

It Happened So Fast

Unfortunately in my world (the ecommerce marketing world), these types of social media campaigns are the norm. These are also the same people that say social media doesn’t work. That’s like filling your coffee maker with tea leaves and saying “This coffee tastes terrible”. Of course it does. You didn’t put in the right ingredients.

It’s easy to fall into the trap too. We all realize the importance of social media and how it plays a vital role in gaining social proof. The problem is when we start mapping out our plan and something snaps. We start to over-think and over-complicate things. Before we know it, we’re lost.

Remember we NEED that social proof, so we can’t just give up. We start to look around and see what everyone else is doing. With so many ecommerce sites doing the same thing, it has to work, right? Why would they all be doing it if it didn’t?

And SNAP! You’re in the trap.

You see how easy it looks to broadcast the same thing over several social media channels. The thinking here is usually “If I can get my messages in front of 10,000 people a day and just 1% buy something, that’s a good day”. That’s very true. That would be a good day …if that ever happened.

It’s Too Hard To Be Me

What is it about our brains that makes us think that being ourselves is so much harder than trying to come up with phony online business personas? Why are we afraid to show our personalities in our business?

Think about your favorite online shops and sites. Why do you like them so much? Is it because they blast you with so-called limited time promotions that will still be around next week? Or, is it because they provide you with valuable, relevant, interesting information? I’m guessing it’s the later.

I’m willing to bet that’s why you keep coming back to Laura’s blog, and I think we can all agree the she has plenty of social proof to back her up.

And POOF… From Poop To Proof In 3 Steps

The good news is if you’ve fallen into this stinky trap, it’s not hard to get out and start creating a loyal audience. If you’re just starting out you’ll know how to avoid the poo.

I’m an ecommerce guy, so I’m usually teaching this to folks who run or want to start an online store, but these 3 things are crucial for any type of online business presence.

  1. Be Yourself – Seriously people. What could possibly be easier than being yourself? If you don’t want to show every part of your personality, that’s fine; but pick a part that you like and run with it. You can only fake it for so long until you burn out and quit. I know you’ve heard this before because Laura teaches this so well in every course she offers.
  2. Stop trying to get a sale with every piece of content you put out. This is hard for lot of people. I’m not saying to give out everything for free. Be strategic in the content that you create. Make it informative, engaging, and relevant with no strings attached. And yes this goes for you ecommerce sites. If you sell roller skates, create or find some great articles about the health benefits or styles of roller skating. You can literally find information to talk about forever once you start thinking like that. You can still add links to your stores product (when relevant) in the blog posts. If the thought of writing new blog posts makes you sick, there are plenty of ways around that too. Just ask Laura. (I see a lot of videos around here. Hint Hint)
  3. Keep That Conversation Going. By conversation I mean email. WAY too many ecommerce owners think that there’s nothing left to do after the sale. This is oh so wrong. This is where the real profitable relationship begins. It’s vital to stay in contact with your customers if you ever want them to come back again. Let’s face it. There are 1,000,001 stores online. No matter how awesome your service is, you’re forgettable unless you become a part of your customers life. This isn’t hard at all. It could simply be by letting them know about a new blog post or even a new blog you found that’s relevant to your industry. Simple informative things. NOT crazy sales emails with pictures all over the place. You know what I’m talking about. Sales and promotion are fine, but in extreme moderation.

If you follow these three steps I promise you will see a difference in your audience. Yes it is more work than creating poop, but it’s business. You have to put forth the effort if you want to see real results.

The great thing is that all these things are doable for those who only have 4-5 hours a week to work on their business.

So what’s your take?

Are you a pooper or a proofer? Tell us in the comments how you’re creating social proof for your business/ecommerce, or how you haven’t.

Andy Fogarty is somewhat of a mad scientist when it comes to ecommerce sites. Not really, but he does know what works and what doesn’t and he uses that knowledge to help others create simple, effective, and profitable online shopping carts that won’t eat up all their time. He’s a freedom fighter and also the author of The Entrepreneurial Daddy where he gives tips and guidance on being a husband, father, and business owner.


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How and Why to Use Twitter Lists

May 12, 2010

What’s the deal with Twitter Lists? Their a bit wacky & confusing. That’s why to fully explain it I’ve pulled a sample video on Twitter lists straight from my Backstage Pass to Twitter program.

This is actually the first time we’ve released ANY content from this program to the public for free, so enjoy!

To learn all about twitter lists and then create your own list or follow someone else’s, check out this video:

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Let Them See You Naked. (On Video.)

May 10, 2010

Guest post by Elizabeth Potts Weinstein

So, tell me, why aren’t you doing video?

You have lots of excuses.

The thousands of ideas. The seemingly complex technologies. The lighting and sound and finding a quiet place in your office. The camera choices and the software options and the editing time. The hassles of uploading and hosting. The morass of promotion.

There’s tons of excuses for not doing video.

But those are not the real reason.

You’re not doing videos because you’re afraid of everyone seeing you naked.

On video there’s nothing to hide behind. It’s your verbal stumbles and nervous laughter and futzing with the neckline of your shirt. It’s your face, your wrinkles, the miscombed part in your hair. Your crooked smile and teeth and glasses. Your weird mannerisms. Your messy office.

You’re not doing videos, because video is you.

But let me tell you my secret.

Letting everyone see you naked, in all of your imperfections, is exactly what make video so delicious.

I’m naked in every video I’ve posted online. In all of my dorkyness, everything I would love to improve via diet and exercise and a few intensive sessions with a voice and acting coach. Every bra strap foible, the phone ringing in the background, the fire trucks sirens on the street outside my apartment, the way I keep forgetting my train of thought, the annoying way I play with my hair.

That vulnerability, that being real, that glimpse into who you really are, that is what will endear your audience to you.

Video is the most intimate connection you can have outside of meeting each person face-to-face. As leveraged as online video is, it’s one on one – it’s your viewers, sitting in their homes or offices, by themselves, watching you.

The more real you are, the more yourself, the more you speak your truth and let your idiotness and weirdness and imperfections show, the more your audience will fall in love with you.

So the first step is to just freaking get over being naked and decide to strip it all off – regardless of how you think you look underneath.

Meanwhile – have you done video yet? Why not? What’s holding you back? What questions do you have about online video?

I’d love to hear from you below!

Note From Laura: If you want to create informative, engaging videos like mine, Elizabeth’s workshop “3 Days to Video” is the best way to learn. But get your booty in now because it’s only available until May 12th!

Her virtual 3-day workshop covers every step, from figuring out your topic, to shooting your video, to editing, to uploading, to promotion. You’ll leave with your finished video, online and ready to go! Click here to reserve your seat by May 12th.

Elizabeth Potts Weinstein empowers solo-entrepreneurs to make a greater difference in the world and become more successful & fulfilled, by doing what is a natural extension of who they really are. She’s also a mom, attorney, author, speaker, coach, radio show host, twitter chat host, video blogging addict, tweetup connoisseur, aspiring adventurer, amateur pole dancer, people loving introvert, and truth evangelist. If you want to follow her on her adventures and learn how to find other like-minded people who are speaking & living their truth, find her at http://twitter.com/ElizabethPW or at http://ElizabethPW.com.


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How to Remove The Post Dates from Your WordPress Blog

May 3, 2010

If you’ve ever wanted to create an “evergreen” WordPress blog by removing post dates, here’s how to do it.

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